“By the bye, as I must leave off being young, I find many douceurs in being a sort of chaperon, for I am put on the sofa near the fire and can drink as much wine as I like.”

—  Jane Austen

Letter (1813-11-06) on ageing [Letters of Jane Austen -- Brabourne Edition]
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