“Man will only become better when you make him see what he is like.”

— Anton Chekhov

Alternate translation: Man will become better when you show him what he is like.
Тогда человек станет лучше, когда вы покажете ему, каков он есть…
Note-Book of Anton Chekhov (1921)

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Russian dramatist, author and physician 1860–1904

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