“When did you become a shivering old woman," Okonkwo asked himself, "you, who are known in all the nine villages for your valor in war? How can a man who has killed five men in battle fall to pieces because he has added a boy to their number? Okonkwo, you have become a woman indeed.”

— Chinua Achebe , book Things Fall Apart

Source: Things Fall Apart (1958), Chapter 8 (pp. 62–63)

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Nigerian novelist, poet, professor, and critic 1930–2013

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