“To love someone out of compassion means not really to love.”

—  Milan Kundera, book The Unbearable Lightness of Being

pg 20
The Unbearable Lightness of Being (1984), Part One: Lightness and Weight

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Czech author of Czech and French literature 1929–2023

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