“When they have really learned to love their neighbours as themselves, they will be allowed to love themselves as their neighbours.”
Letter XIV
The Screwtape Letters (1942)
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The Writings of Marguerite Bourgeoys, p. 170

“There are many who dare not kill themselves for fear of what the neighbours will say.”
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Speech to the St. David's Day Banquet in Cardiff (1 March 1927), quoted in Our Inheritance (London: Hodder and Stoughton, 1938), pp. 46-47.
1927
Context: ... that chauvinistic spirit which so often has been the curse of modern Europe. The best way in which you can develop a true national feeling and put your own country in the pride of place which belongs to her is to do it in communion with other nations and with the sole object of improving the world at large. It is not from disillusionment we have suffered since the War; we are taking a more sober view both of ourselves and of the world... Nationalism can take on some very ugly shapes. It looks as if as many crimes will be committed in its name as in the name of Religion or of Liberty. Indeed the source of the trouble is that Nationalists are apt to assume the garments of Religion... Love of one's country has been perverted into hatred of our neighbour's country by the preaching of lop-sided intellectuals, who themselves generally manage to escape the martyrdom they provide for others.

“Always act in such a way as to secure the love of your neighbour.”
Book XVIII, sec. 44.
Naturalis Historia

“She was learning to love moments. To love moments for themselves.”
“My neighbour
doesn't want to be loved
as much as
he wants to be envied.”
Aphs.
The Whole Bloody Bird (1969)

“Love is the one emotion actors allow themselves to believe.”
Playboy (May 2005)

On Moore’s Life of Lord Byron (1830)