“Men insist that they don't mind women succeeding so long as they retain their "femininity". Yet the qualities that men consider "feminine" timidity, submissiveness, obedience, silliness, and self-debasement — are the very qualities best guaranteed to assure the defeat of even the most gifted aspirant.”

— Elizabeth Gould Davis , book The First Sex

The First Sex, ch. 22 - Woman in the Aquarian Age (1971).

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