“Someone who says “I am busy” is either declaring incompetence (and lack of control of his life) or trying to get rid of you.”

—  Nassim Nicholas Taleb , book The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

Source: The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms (2010), p. 26

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