“Marriage was a lottery, and you drew your lot in late adolescence or early adulthood at a point of maximum idiocy and confusion.”

— Lois McMaster Bujold, Vorkosigan Saga

Vorkosigan Saga, Komarr (1998)

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Science Fiction and fantasy author from the USA 1949

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