“What we find changes who we become.”

“Change is a funny thing. We never are quite sure what we are becoming or even why. Then one day we look at ourselves and wonder who we are and how we got that way. Only one thing about change remains constant… it is always painful”

“None of us really changes over time. We only become more fully what we are.”

“Our job in this lifetime is not to shape ourselves into some ideal we imagine we ought to be, but to find out who we already are and become it.”

“Young man, the games we play are lessons we learn. The assumptions we make, things we ignore, and things we change make us what we become.”

“We must become the change we want to see.”

“What we see changes what we know. What we know changes what we see.”

“Love and friendship. They are what make us who we are, and what can change us, if we let them.”

“We begin to find and become ourselves when we notice how we are already found, already truly, entirely, wildly, messily, marvelously who we were born to be.”

“In love we find out who we want to be, in war we find out who we are.”