Related quotes
On how plays about Black people are changing in “Pushing Beyond the Pulitzer” https://books.google.com/books?id=9tgDAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA116&lpg=PA116&dq in Jet Magazine (Mar 1983)
“We cannot love our own people unless we hate those who consciously destroy our kind.”
Race to Extinction
Focus Fourteen

“the important thing is not what we (look) like, but the role we play in our best friend's life.”
Source: If You Could See Me Now

Still (1979).
Song lyrics, With the Commodores

Interview (March 1996)

“I feel sad for people and the queer part we play in our own distasters.”
Source: White Noise