“Some cynical Frenchman has said that there are two parties to a love-transaction: the one who loves and the other who condescends to be so treated.”

— William Makepeace Thackeray , Vanity Fair

Vol. I, ch. 13.
Source: Vanity Fair (1847–1848)

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