“Falling in love happens so suddenly that it seems, all at once, that you have always been in love.”

— Marya Hornbacher

Source: Madness: A Bipolar Life

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American journalist 1974

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Context: When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won. There have been tyrants and murderers, and for a time they can seem invincible. But in the end they always fall. Think of it—always… When you are in doubt that that is God's way, the way the world is meant to be… think of that.

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