
“Hearts are not to be had as a gift, hearts are to be earned.”
St. 5
Michael Robartes and the Dancer (1921), A Prayer For My Daughter http://poetry.poetryx.com/poems/1421/
Source: The Collected Poems of W.B. Yeats
Context: In courtesy I’d have her chiefly learned;
Hearts are not had as a gift but hearts are earned
By those that are not entirely beautiful;
Yet many, that have played the fool
For beauty’s very self, has charm made wise.
And many a poor man that has roved,
Loved and thought himself beloved,
From a glad kindness cannot take his eyes.
“Hearts are not to be had as a gift, hearts are to be earned.”
“High-erected thoughts seated in the heart of courtesy.”
Book 1. Compare: "Great thoughts come from the heart", Luc de Clapiers, Marquis de Vauvenargues, Maxim cxxvii.
The Countess of Pembroke’s Arcadia (1580)
Source: Walt Disney's Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs
Source: The Tales of Alvin Maker, Prentice Alvin (1989), Chapter 10.