“Never whine. Whining lets a brute know that a victim is in the neighborhood.”

— Maya Angelou , book Letter to My Daughter

Variant: Whining is not only graceless, but can be dangerous. It can alert a brute that a victim is in the neighborhood.
Source: Letter to My Daughter

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American author and poet 1928–2014

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