“The frightened individual seeks for somebody or something to tie his self
to; he cannot bear to be his own individual self any longer,
and he tries frantically to get rid of it and to feel security again by the elimination of this burden:
the self.”

—  Erich Fromm, book Escape from Freedom

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German social psychologist and psychoanalyst 1900–1980

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