“Sometimes one must choose whether to be kind or honorable," he said. "Sometimes one cannot be both.”
Source: Clockwork Princess
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“One cuts and chooses and shifts and pastes, and sometimes tears off and begins again.”
Source: 1940s, Beyond the Aesthetics' (1946), p. 15
Source: Does My Head Look Big In This?

“But one cannot weep for the entire world. It is beyond human strength. One must choose.”
On ne peut pleurer pour le monde entier : C'est au-delà des forces humaines. Il faut choisir !
Cecile or The School for Fathers http://books.google.com/books?id=MeWmNXPF2T0C&q="But+one+cannot+weep+for+the+entire+world+it+is+beyond+human+strength+One+must+choose"&pg=PA186#v=onepage (1954)

“Sometimes we choose the generalization. Sometimes we don't.”
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Usenet postings, 1997
Source: When Women Were Birds: Fifty-four Variations on Voice

“A pessimist is one who, when he has the choice of two evils, chooses both”
Similar quotes are found, unattributed, from as early as 1899 https://books.google.com/books?id=lC81AAAAIAAJ&pg=RA4-PA32&dq=%22two+evils%22+both+pessimist&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0CB0Q6AEwAGoVChMIuveP5uz0yAIVBVqICh0GRQQJ#v=onepage&q=%22two%20evils%22%20both%20pessimist&f=false. First clear attribution to Wilde was not until 1977 https://books.google.com/books?id=eOcWAQAAMAAJ&q=oscar+wilde+%22two+evils%22&dq=oscar+wilde+%22two+evils%22&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0CE4Q6AEwCWoVChMIjMLEuO30yAIVBpSICh0c4Qi9
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