“It's a funny thing about mothers and fathers. Even when their own child is the most disgusting little blister you could ever imagine, they still think that he or she is wonderful.”

— Roald Dahl , book Matilda

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British novelist, short story writer, poet, fighter pilot a… 1916–1990

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