“The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want.”

—  Ben Stein

As quoted in Out of the Blue: Delight Comes Into Our Lives (1996) by Mark Victor Hansen, Barbara Nichols, and Patty Hansen, p. 85

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