“Learn to disagree without being disagreeable.”

—  Sam Rayburn

Advice to new congressmen (1949); quoted by Gerald Ford (2000).
Source: Excerpt; Jimmy Carter and Gerald Ford, "Civility," April 2000 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4D2F89rFWU, video on the YouTube channel of the LBJ Library.

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