“Never go to France
Unless you know the lingo,
If you do, like me,
You will repent, by jingo.”
Thomas Hood (1799–1845) British writer
French and English, st. 1 (1839).
1830s
From Here to Eternity (1951)
Context: "A deathbed promise is the most sacred one there is," she hawked at him from the lungs that were almost, but not quite, filled up yet, "and I want you to make me this promise on my deathbed: Promise me you wont never hurt nobody unless its absolute a must, unless you jist have to do it."
"I promise you," he vowed to her, still waiting for the angels to appear. "Are you afraid?" he said.
"Give me your hand on it, boy. It is a deathbed promise, and you'll never break it."
"Yes maam," he said, giving her his hand, drawing it back quickly, afraid to touch the death he saw in her, unable to find anything beautiful or edifying or spiritually uplifting in this return to God. He watched a while longer for signs of immortality. No angels came, however, there was no earthquake, no cataclysm, and it was not until he had thought it over often this first death that he had had a part in that he discovered the single uplifting thing about it, that being the fact that in this last great period of fear her thought had been upon his future, rather than her own. He wondered often after that about his own death, how it would come, how it would feel, what it would be like to know that this breath, now, was the last one. It was hard to accept that he, who was the hub of this known universe, would cease to exist, but it was an inevitability and he did not shun it. He only hoped that he would meet it with the same magnificent indifference with which she who had been his mother met it. Because it was there, he felt, that the immortality he had not seen was hidden.
“Never go to France
Unless you know the lingo,
If you do, like me,
You will repent, by jingo.”
Thomas Hood (1799–1845) British writer
French and English, st. 1 (1839).
1830s
Rick Warren (1954) Christian religious leader
Source: The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here for?
“When you realize someone is trying to hurt you, it hurts less."
"Unless you love them.”
Shirley Hazzard book The Transit of Venus
Source: The Transit of Venus
“It doesn’t hurt me unless I interpret its happening as harmful to me. I can choose not to.”
Marcus Aurelius book Meditations
Hays translation
VII, 14
Meditations (c. 121–180 AD), Book VII
“Never criticize, unless you can do a better job.”
Laurell K. Hamilton book Guilty Pleasures
Source: Guilty Pleasures
“Ain't no reason for me to kill nobody in the ring, unless they deserve it.”
Muhammad Ali (1942–2016) African American boxer, philanthropist and activist
Comment after the match with Jimmy Ellis was stopped by the referee in the twelfth round (July 1971)
Edith Evans (1888–1976) British actress
As quoted in Dame Edith Evans, ch. 12, by Bryan Forbes (1977)
Alan Alda (1936) actor and United States Army officer
from Alan Alda's graduation speech, 1980 http://www.graduationwisdom.com/speeches/0020-alda1.htm.