“I vowed I wouldn't get married until someone gave me one good reason to. No one ever did - but I got married anyway”

—  Jane Fonda

Said to Redbook Magazine, quoted by Harold V. Cohen, At Random, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette, 22 July 1969 http://news.google.com/newspapers?id=UMpRAAAAIBAJ&sjid=D20DAAAAIBAJ&pg=7053,3057856

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