“One would never have guessed that the world had such a capacity for genuine grief. The most we can do is exploit our memories of his excellence.”

— John Cheever

On the assassination of John F. Kennedy
The Sixties, 1963 entry.
The Journals of John Cheever (1991)

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American novelist and short story writer 1912–1982

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