“Auden is able to set up a We (whom he identifies himself with—rejection loves company) in opposition to the enemy They…”

—  Randall Jarrell

“Changes of Attitude and Rhetoric in Auden’s Poetry”, p. 116
The Third Book of Criticism (1969)

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