“The position I early was enabled to take was one of self-reliance. And were all women as sure of their wants as I was, the result would be the same. But they are so overloaded with precepts and guardians who think that nothing is so much to be dreaded for a woman as originality of thought or character, that their minds are impeded with doubts till they lose their chance of fair, free proportions. The difficulty is to get them to the point from which they shall naturally develop self-respect, and learn self-help.”

—  Margaret Fuller , book Woman in the Nineteenth Century

Woman in the Nineteenth Century (1845)

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American feminist, poet, author, and activist 1810–1850

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