“Never having had either positive cruelty or kindness shown to her by her parents, but only an indifference, she was not conscious of what it was that she missed—affection.”

—  Mervyn Peake, book Titus Groan

Source: Titus Groan (1946), Chapter 37 “The Grotto” (p. 211)

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