“Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It creates the failures. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.”
February 1947 The Diary of Anaïs Nin Vol. 4 (1944-1947), p. 185
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