“Man wishes to be confirmed in his being by man, and wishes to have a presence in the being of the other….
Secretly and bashfully he watches for a YES which allows him to be and which can come to him only from one human person to another.”

—  Martin Buber, book I and Thou

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German Jewish Existentialist philosopher and theologian 1878–1965

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