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“Commitment often means that a woman achieves her primary fantasy, while a man gives his up. In exchange for forfeiting his primary fantasy, what does he hope to fulfill? His primary need: intimacy.”

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Źródło: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. 150.

“Hochschild’s biggest mistake, though, was one made by almost every popularized housework study: not adequately measuring men’s contribution to work around the home. For example, if mom drives the children to daycare, it’s called housework; if dad drives the family to grandma’s, it isn’t called housework.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“Since no one is always right, always being right is really a role model for his children feeling inadequate.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 120.

“We do not yet understand that when we neglect men, we rape women.”

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Warren Farrell książka The Myth of Male Power

Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 336.

“I define power as control over one’s life. Pay is not about power. Pay is about giving up power to get the power of pay.”

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Źródło: Why Men Earn More (2005), p. xxiv.

“The first instinctive response to any criticism is a defensive response. (The quicker the response, the more defensive.)”

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Źródło: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 40.

“The most frequent way men are raped by adult women is "birth control rape."”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 335.

“No movement calls [migrant workers] oppressed for providing money for women from whom they are receiving neither cooking nor cleaning; for providing their wives with homes while they sleep on the ground.”

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Warren Farrell książka The Myth of Male Power

Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part II: The Glass Cellars of the disposable sex, p. 111.

“From a woman’s perspective, sharing parent time feels like what a man might experience if his ex-wife came to his office and shared his career. He might claim the sharing is not in the best interests of the employer. But what he really would be caring about is the affront should his ex-wife do as good as he at his own job. While the fear is understandable, the difference is that his career is his, their children are theirs.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 191.

“The emphasis of the men’s group was on understanding, coping, changing the situation and then, if all else failed, getting out; the emphasis of battered women’s groups is on getting out first, and second, locking up the problem”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“No force is more powerful -- or more multiple -- than the family.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 246.

“Test this out on yourself. Imagine that for a month you have neither had your garbage picked up nor an opportunity to read about new anthropological discoveries. Which would you pay more money to remedy? A society that functions effectively adjusts the pay until the supply matches the need. Failure to make these adjustments not only leaves streets filled with garbage, but also leaves unemployment lines filled with anthropologists.”

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Źródło: Why Men Earn More (2005), p. 211.

“Why do we resist giving help to homeless men? In part because we don’t understand how our pressure on men to support families often forces men to take transient jobs that are but a step away from homelessness (the death-of-a-salesman jobs, the migrant worker jobs…) and in part because we respond differently to men who fail”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part II: The Glass Cellars of the disposable sex, p. 209.

“In a Stage II world, in communities in which survival is mastered enough to create a balance with self-fulfillment, we have the option of “relationship language” that nourishes the soul.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 116.

“Men are the Rosie-the-Riveters of parenting: They’re brought in only when needed, and considered disposable thereafter.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 115.

“For thousands of years, most marriages were in Stage I--survival-focused. After World War II, marriages increasingly flirted with Stage II--a self-fulfillment focus… Love's definition is in a transition.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part 1: The Myth of Male Power, p. 42.

“A family that knows how to play together has the tools to stay together.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 59.

“Four men describe how their wives hit them in the lower back with a pole, cracked them over the head or in the neck with a frying pan… the audience renews its laughter after each story. The men are part of a “PMS Men’s Support Group.” Imagine an audience of men laughing as battered women describe how their husbands threatened them with brain or spinal cord injuries by battering them over their heads or in their necks with a frying pan.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“Unfortunately, the process of gaining money in [a man’s] life usually meant alienating the wife in his life. Sometimes this leads to a legal divorce, but more often to a psychological divorce. Which is why a survey of doctors’ wives reported in Medical/Mrs. Found the doctors’ wives harboring hostility that was ‘stunning to behold.’ Yet the wives remained married to the doctors. Why? More than anything else, the wives said, they wanted security from marriage… the men, then, were often prostitutes to an illusion of emotional security. At least their wives had the reality of economic security.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part II: The Glass Cellars of the disposable sex, p. 203.

“Nothing threatens a father’s involvement in the family more than his obligation to be the family’s “financial womb,” creating “The Father’s ‘Catch-22’”: loving the family by being away from the family. It is the irony of traditional fatherhood: being a father by not being a father.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 90.

“Shifting our attitudes about the future of fathers requires shifting our attitudes about the way our fathers loved. Recognizing that the rigid roles of the past were not designed by men to serve only men is not unrelated to shifting our attitudes toward dad.”

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Źródło: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 239.

“Sexual harassment in the workplace confuses rewards for performance with rewards for attractiveness and sexual availability.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 284-5.

“The Government as Substitute Husband did for women what labor unions still have not accomplished for men. And men pay dues for labor unions; the taxpayer pays the dues for feminism. Feminism and government soon become taxpayer-supported women’s unions.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 344.

“Misandry – or man hating – is the equivalent of misogyny. If you are unaware of misandry, welcome to the club.”

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

“As long as society tells men to be the salespersons of sex, it is sexist for society to put only men in jail if they sell well. We don’t put other salespersons in jail for buying clients drinks and successfully transforming a “no” into a “maybe” into a “yes.” If the client makes a choice to drink too much and the “yes” turns out to be a bad decision, it is the client who gets fired, not the salesperson.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 321.

“Your daughter says, 'Dad. Mom. I want to join the armed services.' You look at her beautiful face, her life flashes before your eyes, and you see a body bag. Now's the time to let her know the biggest military secret: She can join the military and be as safe-from-death as she would be at home. How? In the war in Iraq, not a single woman has been killed in the Air Force. Nor has a single woman been killed in the Marines. And only one has died in the Navy. Your only job is to keep her out of the Army.”

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Źródło: Why Men Earn More (2005), p. 30.

“Laws with broad definitions of rape are like laws making 55 mile per hour speed limits for men and no speed limits for women.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband, p. 317.

“Women-in-jeopardy movies are, in essence, the updated versions of men dying to save the princess from the dragon to earn her love. They are modern-day training films for teaching women to select the best protectors while weeding out the rest.”

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Źródło: The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part II: The Glass Cellars of the disposable sex, p. 225.

“Our choice of partners is perhaps the clearest single statement of our choice of values. Therefore, when we blame our partner for anything, we should really be confronting ourselves. Not as in “Yes, I made a bad choice,” but as in “How does this choice reflect my values?””

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Źródło: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 17.

“All defensive responses to criticism are natural. (It is natural to think of our own perspective before someone else’s.)”

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Źródło: Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000), p. 40.

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