“…even then I knew that I was fortunate. Because you were the first guy who wasn't constantly trying to impress me. You accepted who you were, but more than that, you accepted me for me.”

Amanda Collier Ridley, Chapter 7, p. 137
2009, The Best of Me (2011)

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