“The bourgeois … is tolerant. His love for people as they are stems from his hatred of what they might be.”

—  Theodor W. Adorno, book Minima Moralia

Der Bürger aber ist tolerant. Seine Liebe zu den Leuten, wie sie sind, entspringt dem Haß gegen den richtigen Menschen.
E. Jephcott, trans. (1974), § 4
Minima Moralia (1951)

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