Source: My Turn (1989), Ch. 4 : First Lady, Dragon Lady
Context: I was not the power behind the throne.
Did I ever give Ronnie advice? You bet I did. I’m the one who knows him best, and I was the only person in the White House who had absolutely no agenda of her own — except helping him.
And so I make no apologies for telling him what I thought. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you have no right to express your opinions. For eight years I was sleeping with the president, and if that doesn’t give you special access, I don’t know what does!
So yes, I gave Ronnie my best advice — whenever he asked for it, and sometimes when he didn’t. But that doesn’t mean he always took it. Ronald Reagan has a mind of his own.
“The most generous person is the one who offers help to those who do not expect him to help.”
Majlisi, Bihārul Anwār, vol.78, p. 121
General Quotes
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The grandson of Muhammad and the son of Ali ibn Abi Talib 626–680Related quotes
“God helps those who help themselves.”
Source: Discourses Concerning Government (1689), Ch. 2, Sect. 23; comparable to: "Help thyself, and God will help thee", George Herbert, Jacula Prudentum; "Heaven ne’er helps the men who will not act", Sophocles, Fragment 288 (Plumptre’s Translation); "Help thyself, Heaven will help thee", Jean de La Fontaine, Book vi. fable 18.
“Therapist’s dilemma: those who need help the most, run the farthest from it.”
Source: Time Bomb
Response to State of the Union speech (20 January 2004) http://www.clark04.com/press/release/197/
Patheos, The Cow http://www.patheos.com/blogs/reasonadvocates/2016/01/22/the-cow/ (January 22, 2016)
al-Shahid al-Tustari, Ihqaqul-Haq, vol.12, p. 432
Religious Wisdom
“The best kind of charity is to help those who are willing to help themselves.”
Ch. 18: "Be charitable" http://www.fourmilab.ch/etexts/www/barnum/moneygetting/moneygetting_chap19.html
Art of Money Getting (1880)
“God helps only those who are prepared and determined to help themselves.”
Speech in Weimar http://der-fuehrer.org/reden/english/38-11-06.htm, 6 November 1938
1930s
Variant: It is one of the beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself.