“Do not choose for your wife any woman you would not choose for a friend if she were a man.”
Joseph Joubert (1754–1824) French moralist and essayist
La femme est une propriété que l'on acquiert par contrat, elle est mobilière, car la possession vaut titre; enfin, la femme n'est, à proprement parler, qu'une annexe de l'homme; or, tranchez, coupez, rognez, elle vous appartient à tous les titres.
Part II, Meditation Number XII: The Hygiene of Marriage.
Physiology of Marriage (1829)
“Do not choose for your wife any woman you would not choose for a friend if she were a man.”
Joseph Joubert (1754–1824) French moralist and essayist
Karl Marx (1818–1883) German philosopher, economist, sociologist, journalist and revolutionary socialist
Section 2, paragraph 25.
The Manifesto of the Communist Party (1848)
H.L. Mencken (1880–1956) American journalist and writer
Baltimore Evening Sun (12 February 1923)
1920s
Context: The fact is that the average man's love of liberty is nine-tenths imaginary, exactly like his love of sense, justice and truth. He is not actually happy when free; he is uncomfortable, a bit alarmed, and intolerably lonely. Liberty is not a thing for the great masses of men. It is the exclusive possession of a small and disreputable minority, like knowledge, courage and honor. It takes a special sort of man to understand and enjoy liberty — and he is usually an outlaw in democratic societies.
Toni Morrison book Beloved
Variant: She is a friend of my mind. She gather me, man. The pieces I am, she gather them and give them back to me in all the right order. It's good, you know, when you got a woman who is a friend of your mind.
Source: Beloved
Margery Allingham (1904–1966) English writer of detective fiction
The Oaken Heart
Anne Brontë book The Tenant of Wildfell Hall
Source: The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848), Ch. XXIV : First Quarrel; Helen to Arthur
Ray Comfort (1949) New Zealand-born Christian minister and evangelist
AronRa vs Ray Comfort (September 17th, 2012), Radio Paul's Radio Rants
Billy Joel (1949) American singer-songwriter and pianist
Modern Woman.
Song lyrics, The Bridge (1986)