“There are people who dislike you because you do not dislike yourself.”
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie 97
Nigerian writer 1977Related quotes

“You might as well sell yourself to slavery at once, as marry man you dislike.”
Source: The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848), Ch. XLI : Hope Springs Eternal in the Human Breast; Helen to Esther

Sail 25 (p. 75)
Short fiction, Future Tense (1964)

“People are going to dislike you if you make a decision, even if it turns out to be the right one.”
1990s, An Exchange With a Civil War Historian (June 1995)

“The only time people dislike gossip is when you gossip about them.”
As quoted in The New Speaker's Treasury of Wit and Wisdom (1958) by Herbert Victor Prochnow, p. 190
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Variant: The only time people dislike gossip is when you gossip about them.

Source: "Quotes", Anatomy of Criticism: Four Essays (1957), p. 70