“You know how everything seems so normal when you’re growing up,” she asked plaintively, “and then comes this moment when you realize your whole family is nuts?”

—  Karen Joy Fowler, book We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves

Source: We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves

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American novelist, short story writer, editor 1950

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