“We forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to be like other people.”

—  Arthur Schopenhauer

As attributed in Dictionary of Quotations from Ancient and Modern English and Foreign Sources (1899) by James Wood, p. 624

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German philosopher 1788–1860

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