“When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.”

—  Desmond Tutu

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South African churchman, politician, archbishop, Nobel Priz… 1931

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