“Resolve to be thyself; and know, that he
Who finds himself, loses his misery.”

— Matthew Arnold

"Self-Dependence" (1852), lines 31-32
Source: The Poetical Works of Matthew Arnold

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English poet and cultural critic who worked as an inspector… 1822–1888

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“Resolve to be thyself; and know, that he
Who finds himself, loses his misery.”