“How rare it is for a woman to support her husband aright in his position in the world, and for husband and wife to work together in complete harmony! During these last seven years Marie has won esteem and affection from high and low alike by her friendly bearing, her sincerity of character and her beneficence; spiritually she has exercised a stronger influence than have the clergy over many ladies and women.”

— Alfred von Waldersee

Waldersee in his diary, 16 May 1898, referring to his wife Mary

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Prussian Field Marshal 1832–1904

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