“How can I forgive if you are not ready to give up that which caused you to stumble?”
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni book The Mistress of Spices
Source: The Mistress of Spices
As quoted in Seeking Peace : Notes and Conversations Along the Way (1998) by Johann Christoph Arnold, p. 155
Context: Just because so many things are in conflict does not mean that we ourselves should be divided. Yet time and time again one hears it said that since we have been put into a conflicting world, we have to adapt to it. Oddly, this completely unchristian idea is most often espoused by so-called Christians, of all people. How can we expect a righteousness to prevail when there is hardly anyone who will give himself up undividedly to a righteous cause?
“How can I forgive if you are not ready to give up that which caused you to stumble?”
Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni book The Mistress of Spices
Source: The Mistress of Spices
Warren Farrell (1943) author, spokesperson, expert witness, political candidate
Source: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. 96.
Václav Havel book Disturbing the Peace
Source: Disturbing the Peace (1986), Ch. 2 : Writing for the Stage
“If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?”
Maya Angelou (1928–2014) American author and poet
“And how could anyone consent to give up the smell of open books, old or new?”
Elizabeth Kostova book The Swan Thieves
Source: The Swan Thieves
“We all give up great expectations along the way.”
Carlos Ruiz Zafón book The Angel's Game
Source: The Angel's Game
George Orwell (1903–1950) English author and journalist
"The Freedom of the Press", unused preface to Animal Farm (1945), published in Times Literary Supplement (15 September 1972)
Context: At any given moment there is an orthodoxy, a body of ideas which it is assumed that all right-thinking people will accept without question. It is not exactly forbidden to say this, that or the other, but it is 'not done' to say it, just as in mid-Victorian times it was 'not done' to mention trousers in the presence of a lady. Anyone who challenges the prevailing orthodoxy finds himself silenced with surprising effectiveness. A genuinely unfashionable opinion is almost never given a fair hearing, either in the popular press or in the highbrow periodicals.
Joseph Priestley book Institutes of Natural and Revealed Religion
Vol. I : Part I : The Being and Attributes of God, § 1 : Of the existence of God, and those attributes which art deduced from his being considered as uncaused himself, and the cause of every thing else (1772)
Institutes of Natural and Revealed Religion (1772–1774)