“Sex can be funny, but not very sexy.”

— Martin Amis

"Off the Page: Martin Amis" (2003)
Context: Good sex is impossible to write about. Lawrence and Updike have given it their all, and the result is still uneasy and unsure. It may be that good sex is something fiction just can't do — like dreams. Most of the sex in my novels is absolutely disastrous. Sex can be funny, but not very sexy.

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