“I sit beside my lonely fire
And pray for wisdom yet:
For calmness to remember
Or courage to forget.”
Charles Hamilton Aide (1826–1906) French writer
Remember or Forget, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).
City Aphorisms, Third Selection (1986)
“I sit beside my lonely fire
And pray for wisdom yet:
For calmness to remember
Or courage to forget.”
Charles Hamilton Aide (1826–1906) French writer
Remember or Forget, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).
Samuel Butler (1835–1902) novelist
Antithesis
The Note-Books of Samuel Butler (1912), Part IV - Memory and Design
Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist
1950s, The Russell-Einstein Manifesto (1955)
“To forgive is wisdom, to forget is genius.”
Joyce Cary (1888–1957) Irish writer
“You forget what you want to remember and remember what you would prefer to forget.”
Henning Mankell book The Troubled Man
Source: The Troubled Man
“Forget that I remember
And dream that I forget.”
Algernon Charles Swinburne book Poems and Ballads
"Rococo", lines 15-16.
Poems and Ballads (1866-89)
Ann Brashares book Forever in Blue: The Fourth Summer of the Sisterhood
Source: Forever in Blue: The Fourth Summer of the Sisterhood