“How odd it is that we so often weep for each other’s distresses, when we shed not a tear for our own!”
Source: The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848), Ch. XXXII : Comparisons: Information Rejected; Helen
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British novelist and poet 1820–1849Related quotes

“Time engraves our faces with all the tears we have not shed.”
As quoted in The Amazon of Letters, Ch. 10 (1976) by George Wickes

“Tears shed for self are tears of weakness, but tears shed for others are a sign of strength.”

(21st August 1830) The Legacy of the Roses
The London Literary Gazette, 1830

Oh Breathe Not His Name, st. 1.
Irish Melodies http://www.musicanet.org/robokopp/moore.html (1807–1834)
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“Most often we are judging not others, but rather our own faculties in others.”
Le plus souvent nous ne jugeons pas les autres, mais nous jugeons nos propres facultés dans les autres.
Œuvres choisies (Paris: A. Hatier, 1934) p. 774; Andrew George Lehmann Sainte-Beuve (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1962) p. 301.