“Here, when a woman is in childbirth, it is the husband who takes to his bed. He lies there groaning with his head wrapped up and his wife feeds him with loving care. She even prepares the bath for the event.”

Source: Argonautica (3rd century BC), Book II. Onward to Colchis, Lines 1011–1014

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ἔνθ᾽ ἐπεὶ ἄρ κε τέκωνται ὑπ᾽ ἀνδράσι τέκνα γυναῖκες, αὐτοὶ μὲν στενάχουσιν ἐνὶ λεχέεσσι πεσόντες, κράατα δησάμενοι· ταὶ δ᾽ εὖ κομέουσιν ἐδωδῇ ἀνέρας, ἠδὲ λοετρὰ λεχώια τοῖσι πένονται.

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