“There were times in my life when I couldn't feel much, not sadness or pity or passion, and somehow I blamed this place for what I had become, and I blamed it for taking away the person I had once been.”

— Tim O'Brien , book The Things They Carried

The Things They Carried (1990), Field Trip

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