“That was the most terrible thing that a woman could to a decent man: look vulnerable and ask him for mercy. If he refused her he'd be denying all his instincts as a provider and protector.”

— Orson Scott Card , book Homebody

Homebody (1998)

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American science fiction novelist 1951

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