“It's not whether you really cry. It's whether the audience thinks you are crying.”
Ingrid Bergman (1915–1982) Film actress from Sweden
Halliwell's Filmgoer's and Video Viewer's Companion
The Complete Neurotic's Notebook (1981), Theater
“It's not whether you really cry. It's whether the audience thinks you are crying.”
Ingrid Bergman (1915–1982) Film actress from Sweden
Halliwell's Filmgoer's and Video Viewer's Companion
Bertolt Brecht (1898–1956) German poet, playwright, theatre director
"Entertainment or Education? (1936)
Context: The theater-goer in conventional dramatic theater says: Yes, I've felt that way, too. That's the way I am. That's life. That's the way it will always be. The suffering of this or that person grips me because there is no escape for him. That's great art — Everything is self-evident. I am made to cry with those who cry, and laugh with those who laugh. But the theater-goer in the epic theater says: I would never have thought that. You can't do that. That's very strange, practically unbelievable. That has to stop. The suffering of this or that person grips me because there is an escape for him. That's great art — nothing is self-evident. I am made to laugh about those who cry, and cry about those who laugh.
Bertolt Brecht (1898–1956) German poet, playwright, theatre director
"Entertainment or Education? (1936)
Context: The theater-goer in conventional dramatic theater says: Yes, I've felt that way, too. That's the way I am. That's life. That's the way it will always be. The suffering of this or that person grips me because there is no escape for him. That's great art — Everything is self-evident. I am made to cry with those who cry, and laugh with those who laugh. But the theater-goer in the epic theater says: I would never have thought that. You can't do that. That's very strange, practically unbelievable. That has to stop. The suffering of this or that person grips me because there is an escape for him. That's great art — nothing is self-evident. I am made to laugh about those who cry, and cry about those who laugh.
“Mama was crying, and the rain made it seem as if the whole world was crying.”
Lois Lowry book Number the Stars
Source: Number the Stars
Ray Charles (1930–2004) American musician
First years at School, p. 25
Brother Ray : Ray Charles' Own Story (1978)
“It's time that we began to laugh and cry and cry and laugh about it all again.”
Leonard Cohen (1934–2016) Canadian poet and singer-songwriter
Source: Songs of Leonard Cohen, Herewith: Music, Words and Photographs
“The mirror is my best friend because when I cry it never laughs.”
Charlie Chaplin (1889–1977) British comic actor and filmmaker
Natasha Kaplinsky (1972) English newsreader and reporter
Her general reaction to learning about the fate of her family.
"Kaplinsky's tears over family secret", interview in Metro, Tue August 28 2007, p. 23
Marcel Marceau (1923–2007) French mime and actor
Interview http://www.thelantern.com/global_user_elements/printpage.cfm?storyid=63845, The Lantern (5 April 2001)
“I think men who can cry are strong men”
James Frey book A Million Little Pieces
Source: A Million Little Pieces