“So it's not about what you do. It can't be, can it? It has to be about how you are, how you love, how you treat yourself and those around you, and that's where I get eaten up.”

“I write about power, that's my real subject - how you get it, what you do with it, how you abuse it. I'm equally wary of liberals and conservatives.”

Rene Balcer (1954) screenwriter, producer and director

“You get tired of dealing with how other people think of what you're doing. It finally gets to the point where you realize that if you're going to do it the way you want, you have to do it yourself. That might mean putting up the money to do it yourself.”

Clare Fischer (1928–2012) American keyboardist, composer, arranger, and bandleader

“My dad always says, some people will treat you badly and you can't help that. But how you handle it and how it makes you feel, that's up to you.”

Elise Broach (1963) American writer

“It's not necessarily about what career you pick. It's about how you do what you do.”

Cory Doctorow Someone Comes to Town, Someone Leaves Town

“No matter how rich, talented or intelligent you are… how you treat animals tells me all I need to know about you.”

Ralph Smart

“It isn't about what you do, but how you do it”

John Wooden (1910–2010) American basketball coach

“If this is what you do to the winner, I'd hate to see how you treat the runner up.”

Anthony Horowitz (1955) English novelist and screenwriter

“Why do you do these things to yourself? Not just what you did to the window, but the way you talked to Clary. What are you punishing yourself for? You can't help how you feel.”

Cassandra Clare book City of Glass

“Every second of every minute of every hour of every day you are making decisions. These choices are about what will change, and how. You are doing nothing but changing. How you are changing is up to you. What you are evolving into is up to you.”

Neale Donald Walsch (1943) American writer