
“… as long as nothing happens between them, the memory is cursed with what hasn't happened.”
Source: Blue Eyes, Black Hair
Blue Eyes, Black Hair is a 1986 novel by the French writer Marguerite Duras. It tells the story of a couple who meet by chance in a small vacation town. The man is homosexual and has recently fallen in love with a man with blue eyes and black hair. After meeting the woman at a cafe, he pays the woman to come to his room so that he can look at her, presumably in order to learn something about women or love.
“… as long as nothing happens between them, the memory is cursed with what hasn't happened.”
Source: Blue Eyes, Black Hair