“We deny the parts of ourselves that we deem unacceptable rather than accepting the fact that we're all less than perfect.”

Source: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff ... and it's all small stuff: Simple Ways to Keep the Little Things from Taking Over Your Life

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Author, psychotherapist and motivational speaker 1961–2006

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