“If you don't get out there and define yourself, you'll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others”

“You’re only responsible for yourself, Jess. And that’s the only person you can control. Other people will either get it or they won’t but you can’t define yourself by their opinions.”

“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”

“Accept no one’s definition of you, define yourself.”

“Mingling with people, hurting them, getting hurt by them…that's how you learn about others…and about yourself. If you don't you'll never be able to care about anyone but yourself.”

“Defining yourself through thought is limiting yourself.”

“Define yourself radically as one beloved by God. This is the true self. Every other identity is illusion.”

“Try not to measure your success by the success of others. Success should be defined by one person…Yourself.”

“Here you are, you're a liberal, probably define peace as the absence of conflict. I define peace as the ability to defend yourself and blow your enemies into smithereens.”

“[ Managementlove can be defined as] the function of getting things done through others.”